Today I finished writing my Christmas Cards, I bottled the damson Gin I've made. The pressies are wrapped. The tree is up. I'm sat on the sofa with my husband.
And this week I had a revelation, now this is one of those things that I thought I knew but somehow the truth of it hit me this week in a way I've never ever understood it before.
It is simply this
It's ok if not everybody likes me.
Now for a people pleaser like me this is a massive thing. But it really is ok. For some reason I always thought if someone didn't like me it meant I'd failed in some way. But no, my job is to give messages from Spirit, and to do my best to do the right thing. Not to be popular.
Please don't misunderstand me it's lovely to be liked. When people like me (and a lot of people seem to) that's great and I'm so very grateful. But not everyone is going to, for whatever reason and that's fine.
I wish you all a very Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year. May all your dreams come true, and I look forward to seeing you next year.