However just occasionally I don't love it. Like last weekend.
In amongst the readings I conducted there was a nice lady in her twenties. However this lady's baby had died just a few months ago. I told her what I could, that her daughter was fine, that her daughter is with her beloved Grandad, that she will have more children, that her daughter had just woken from the dream that is life to the wonderful reality of eternity, that her daughter was watching and over her, and she would see her daughter again. All these things are completely true, all these things are wonderful. But none of these things could subdue her grief, of course they couldn't.
The fact is we live in a world where the pain is real. Where grief really hurts, and there are some things that a medium, however good simply cannot fix. One day we will understand all these things, all the "whys" will be clear and we will see the big plan. Until then I will continue to be a reluctant medium, who doesn't have all the answers.